Determines what his wife needs from him (emotionally and physically).
Meets his wife’s needs to the best of his ability (the Lord
doesn’t make us perfect and that is why the Lord invented “Please forgive me”).
Therefore, when his wife feels loved and cherished she wants to meet
all of his needs…and will make every effort to do so.
Wife
Encouragement
Prays for her husband.
Provides unconditional love and acceptance, as the Lord
does…just the way he is.
Prayerfully lets God bring about changes in her husband,
does not try to change him herself…Serenity Prayer (accept things I cannot
change, change things I can).
Provide forgiveness for her hurt and her husbands failures,
“Make every effort to make peace with all men”…this is where you will find
God’s Grace…Hebrews 12:14-15.
Therefore, when her husband feels encouraged he wants to be the spiritual head...and will make
every effort to do so.
Both
Lives a life of Biblical truth and is an illustration of Godly love.
Pursues a life style of Scriptural responsibility with finances and
saves for a rainy day.
Pursue a simple lifestyle:
Love God
Love your wife/husband
Love your children
Reach out to help others
Book:Rocking the Roles by Robert Lewis and William Hendricks,
Nav Press 1991.
Dr. David R.Henson
303-987-4660
http://www.trauma-relief.com